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LEARN FROM KIDS !

I just read a book from LOVE YOU,

and  i found a topic that attract me,

LEARN FROM KIDS !

I think you guys must read it too, so I'll just share with you guys here.

Often the best teachers are not only experts in their fields, but every people That We Could Also met can also be our life's teacher include kids!

There's a lot of Things That Actually and Should We must learn from kids.

First, children are easy to forgive.If they fight each other, not in a matter of hours they have to forgive each other and can play together again with no slightest feeling of resentment. Then, how about us?

Different with us, the adult one, often small problem that other people made were so difficult enough to forgive and we often kept it for a long time inside our mind. And, sometimes we can make that small one become the big one. How come?

For example, there's our best best friend, who we knew since we young, play together and grew up together. Then , for a tiny simple things that he made, we couldn't forgive and even hate him for a long time.
This is the most unfair thing that we do!

We became the one who can so easily forget people's kindness. This will make us difficult to find our peaceful heart and happiness

 " Hatred is like drinking poison, but expect other people who harm"

 Next, the second things that we should learn from kids are

Kids don't like things complicated!
They'll quickly confuse of complicated things we told.
They prefer to hear about simple stories and easy to understand.
This is the difference between us, adult and kids that actually likes to exaggerate a problem that was simple actually.

Smart people are those who simplify a complicated matter.

                                                            A fool is one who complicates things simple

Third one, Kids are very proactive at learning. They always want to know that they don't know, they were so open-minded to new things. Again, different with us, we often think that we already knew a lot of things but actually we don't.

Cup in our mind is empty, when in fact there is air in the cup.

Sometimes, we are too arrogant to learn from a younger person.

Last but not least, Kids are not too burdened by a problem.

What they know was just around playing, playing and playing.

They always fill their days with full of joy and laughter.

We, who always face life's reality, often make us forget how to stay happy dan play along with others, we just became too serious!

Psychology once said that adult still have the souls of child, they would like to play like a kid do. But, they were trapped by daily routinity and became forget of that feeling.

Now, the question is can we practice this four character from them?

The best lesson from this story is to not be a childish, but to be a childlike.

Be a childlike in forgiveness,simplicity and cheerfulness.

Kids AWdicted,

Rosa

PENAT PENUT =_=

This time i come with "cenat cenut" heart.

I cant really tell what actually i feel right now,

I just know that lately I feel uneasy with people around me.

Dealing with people who constantly create emotion in my heart.

Is it because of my own who are too weak to face the situation around, or because I am overly sensitive, or also because I like to think negative?

Walking on two options is not as easy as they think.

Those who just walked in one choice only can so easily blame.

Can only assume I changed, but whether they've seen changes in themselves?

The second option was also desired by them, just because a mate who has not reached them.

 Whether if they get it first, can they guarantee that they will not change?

I am now in two environments, I do not want to choose between them.

To me, they can join, just because one party is still not able to open their minds to this day.

Sometimes I dont want to blame anything, because I know they are still not familiar with these changes.

But, for the umpteenth time, can I still survive?

I was always quiet, not because I do not dare, but because I feel what I feel is not important to debate, but that does not mean they should interfere with me, making fun of me.

I was silent because I do not want to spend my energy to interfere with their own problems posed.

It dont care they would think I was selfish or never want to care for others.

They create the problem, they certainly knew well how to handle it.

Sometimes when I see people use feelings to deal with the situation that happened, I felt very upset

I would have thought, OMB, do I often like that?

Things like that will really make people upset.

Hate when my angers turn into tears!

I just feel it yesterday.

No one who knows and understands me,

how could they so easily scold me for things they do not know?

Many other things that people might think is a trivial matter, but not for me.

As I had said above, maybe because I was the one who is weak to deal with trivial issues?

It seems all this is an easy thing, it's just that I prefer to keep my own problems by myself.

Is it time for me to share what I feel? Not yet, not yet.

As long as I can still survive and find their own solutions.

Be Strong and Stay Strong,

Rosa

COMMITTEE TRAINING

YUHUU..

its been a week i dont come to visit you again.Hehe

Now, im here to chit chat again with you.

I am going to share about my FIRST Committee Training, First again. Everything seems first in my blog, but im surely in love with my first, first and first. :))

Days before..

Everybody seems busy to prepare their things,to show the best and to give the best for BLIA YAD. Everybody do seems cant wait for this committee training, so do I. hahaha. Wondering so much what is committee training, how it feel?

First day committee training..
We are going to Pure Land at 2, and honestly this timing is not really fit with me, why?
- I have to work until 1,
- I havent done packing, and actually it was my fault who didnt finished it yesterday.
And, finally in this rush one hour I have the very First quick packing in the whole time before i go to S3S.
I learn things from it,  i will never delayed packing things again!

In bus, everybody seems preparing for their presentation, Fa Qi examination, esp Ta Bei Cou, haha.

We have a lot of fun in the bus, hihi haha inside..

Arrived at 6, everybody seems cant wait again to start this first day committee training. Then all of us gather together at da dien, each of us were given one set of schedule paper, and yeah, we were divided into four groups.

Give other confidence,

         Give other hope,

                  Give other Happiness,

                           Give other convenience

Give other convidence were our group name, and I am "Give other confidence" group leader together with Stella, Gian and Jackson. Wow, im sure this training will be so much aww! XD

The first dinner, our group got the oppurtunity to serve others, so much fun. And it become more fun, when i was bullied by Jackson about the rule of serving people and continued bullied by Stella, Gian and Akheng.

They are such good team, you know. THANKS! Haha.

But, i was grateful that they were in the same group with me, hoho. They really help me a lot.
After dinner, we learn a lot from Light's Dharma Speech.
FAITH, BELIEVE & TRUST ! What will we be the next 10 years? The goal is to become harmonize! Hand in hand together we will be. HWAITING !!!


Second day committee training..
Wake up in the morning, and got morning advices from Advisor Lee, some of us didnt really focus in this morning, didnt really prepare their heart to face Buddha. Everybody seems in a rush. And,im sure that everyone will fix it tomorrow. First group FaQi, it was their first time, they do mistakes, but im sure that they have do their best. Continued to our two Vice President, Jackson and Jessica speech and the topic was about our four group name.


O yah, I forgot to tell ya about our group yell-yell. hehe
Xin xin,
Puchi puchi Faith, puchi puchi Believe, Puchi puchi Trust
Xin xin,
Gei ren xin xin, wo men hui gei ren xin xin, so come on now, just fang kai ni de xin.
Wo men xiang xin wo men hui
Tang Zi, Khe Zi, Mu Yi, Ling Ku, Wei Nuo. Wo men yi ting yao JIA YOU ! HE HE HE
Ouite funny, hah?

 

We got special oppurtunity to serve people by practicing this four main point. Can you imagine, we will become a day-DharmaLearning-tour guide to tell people more about our Pure Land, and the result was so Meaningful !

Everybody feel so satisfied. Cant express how I feel that time, just know that I feel so

H A P P Y tingkat dewa!

 

Next, Miss Rani Amal also give us some learning about what are we going to do by becoming a committee, actually I dont really understand, because of Miss Rani Amal use more than half Mandarin language in her class, and I dont good, really,  at it. Means, I have to take a Mandarin course , it will be useful for me next. Hoho.

Advisor Huang also shared to us about Ethics, Culture and Team Building with his own-fun-style. This class runs so fun, a lot of games were included in his class. Things I remember most from his class was by using the word 'and' , not 'but' in our life, and it really make big differences . Try it!

This fun class was suddenly changed into a little bit serious one, by Advisor Lee. How to make the organization stay long and work effectively. By practicing SCORES in our life.. Shared information and open communication was the main point i think. Is it? Out of predict, he shared to us about his "kesan pesan about this committee" , and hell yeah, mostly all what he written was almost TRUE ! One thing that we should learn from him was his criticise thought to environment. Standing applause for Advisor Lee. That night, I am sure that others committee was slapped hard and wake up too that time, realize what was actually happened that time inside committee. "we got night teardrops that night " hhe

Everybody must have a good and tight sleep that night, :D

Last day committee training,

The second FaQi exam for the second group!

They surely have practiced it and they are doing great..

After chanting, we have class from Mrs. Yulia Halim. Some of committee was asleep at the first term of class, hahaha, they must be tired. Luckily, Light gave us some coffee break to gain back our stamina, and really we continued the class with so much fun. After this class end, its mean we have to prepare for internal and external presentation.

Internal section got their time first to present. And then continued by external section. I do love this part, everybody give opinion to each other section to make them improve. And, we were out of the time table, we end the presentation at 12. Our lovely President then continued to share his feeling for this 2 month.

There's a HERO if you LOOK inside your HEART

That kind of feeling, our togetherness, ah, so calm, peace and harmonize. Nobody really seems want to go for a sleep, and it was already 3 in the morning and we have to go back home at 4. Haha, Great! Save the best for the Last <3

I cant write all of this 3 days 2 night aegyo story here, it was an endless story,

for me,  it'll  never have " The End "

The happy me,

Rosa :)

 

MY FIRST PUBLIC BLOG & SPEAKING

                         Annyeongg XD

Photobox of 8th March 2011

At last, i can write my first public blog.

For real, i never want to tell what i feel, what i think. But, i think this is the time, the right time for me to change that habit. Sometimes, silence is gold. But, sometimes you need to throw that gold away to make yourself relieve. Nowadays, i'm trying to share to my friends bout what i think, little part of things that i always kept was reveal, and YEAH, i feel a little bit relieve.  
Its better little than nothing,right? :)

Now, ill start to share a little-sweet part of mine. Enjoy it!

28th February 2011

PUBLIC SPEAKING CLASS

My first public speaking class is so WOW
* speechless

Before this class begin, i kept wondering ' Kek ancua ho ini public speaking class ? '
Keep wondering and wondering, until i was chosen as one of 7 lucky people. It make me to keep wondering more and more. We have to use formal shirt for the girls, formal shirt plus tie for the boys in the class. See? Can you feel how excited i was? Our teacher, Mr. Rong Lee is always out of predict. He always try to serve the best and different. And, really, this class is different. He has his own unique way to teach us. Actually,im not a kind of brave people to talk in front of people. But, this class slowly teach me how to face this problem. I learn a lot of things, how to maintain ourself to talk in front of people.
Charisma, give solution, good preparation, open information, body language, appearance, is the point of good public speaker.
This first time class, we have to talk about our presentation in committee training. Before my turn to talk, actually, i have prepare things that i will tell in front, but, when its my turn , BLANK, everythings gone. There's a lot of poin i didnt tell,and many more. I was so nervous. You can see how red my face was, hahaha. But, its my first. I'll improve day to day.

"Yesterday was good, today is better, tomorrow must be the best"

Thanks to David Wijaya who suggest to open and have maintain this awesome class, Rong Lee laose, the patient teacher that fa xin to teach us.

6 others friends did really good job too.
Juandy,Handy,Nova,Joselin,Veny and Tiffany. Especially Joselin, i was surprised with her fast improvement. She do improve a lot. Keep fighting buddies!

Waiting for the next public speaking class,
O yaa, big big sorry to my laose. I am the last student who didnt fullfil her job at time. Wont repeat it next time, peace! ^^v

Actually, this late one week i just have past a lot of sweet memories again, Committee Training. But, not the right time for me to share, hahaa. Its been too late now. I'll share it next time peeps. Good nite world and my first public blog, i'll come to visit you again.  :))

Saranghae,

Rosa